Published on ReluctantPickle.com – For the confused, the conflicted, and the chronically unqualified to make the call.

🚨 The Situation:

You’re in a tight game.
No crowd. No ref.
Just you, your friend, a line call…
…and the silent pressure of someone who drove you here.

So… who wins?

🎾 1. The Correct Answer

Technically: the team that didn’t hit the ball last makes the call.
That’s right — your opponent decides if it was in or out.

😅 So if your best friend is feeling salty about that third-shot dink you just barely pulled off?
Yeah, good luck.

🫣 2. The Real-World Answer

Let’s be honest:

  • 80% of the time, you say “Let’s replay it.”
  • 15% of the time, someone grumbles and plays on.
  • 5% of the time, someone rage-quits, and the other person quietly claims victory in their soul.

🤝 3. When “Let’s Replay It” Actually Means “I Know I Lost”

Let’s not kid ourselves.
If you ever say:

“I’m not sure. Wanna replay it?”

…you definitely know it was out.
We all know.
Even Barb three courts over knows.

🧠 4. The Pickleball Rulebook Says:

“When no referee is present, players are responsible for making all line calls on their side of the court.”

Translation: Your friend is now the most biased ref in sports history.

😐 5. So What’s the Right Thing To Do?

If you’re the one making the call:
👉 Be honest — but if you’re not sure, it’s in.

If you’re on the receiving end:
👉 Smile. Breathe. Say “Nice shot.” Even if you want to throw your paddle across the kitchen.

🏆 6. Who Actually Wins?

No one.

Except maybe the person who didn’t drive.

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